Thursday, January 31, 2008

Merrie wanted me to share this with you:

As Thursday comes to a close, we can't count the number of prayers answered.
1. Bryan was taken to the procedure earlier than expected. (8am) which means he didn't have very much time to be hungry this morning.
2. There was 3 hours of prep for the procedure which started at 11am.
3. The procedure was more complicated than expected because they found an AVF which had to be corrected with a balloon and coil and it was in a very difficult part of the brain to reach. But all went EXREMELY successful.
4. About 2pm he came out of anthesia with no neurological side effects and by 3pm he was his usual self joking with the nurses and doctors and still hungry.
5. Tonight he is his usual self because he hasn't had much opprotunity talk and now he's making up for it.
6. Becky and Merrie have caught up on some much needed sleep and were able to go out to a little restaruant for dinner.
7. When Dr Malek came back to check Bryan, Bryan asked for two things-
He did want them to shine a bright light in his eyes every hour so he could
get some sleep.
(Dr. Malek agreed to change it to every 4 hours because the high
pressure situation in his vascular system in his brain has been reduced back to
normal)
He also wanted extra blood pressure medication so he can watch the
Super Bowl. (Dr Malek said only if he is a Patriots fan)



The 3rd procedure is scheduled for Monday. So he should be in great shape for Sunday's Super Bowl. After the 3rd procedure on Monday, it will be determined how best to remove the small seconary AVM with surgery or radiation.

Bryan loves to read the comments on this blog. Becky and Merrie are able to update him daily-- KEEP THEM COMING!!

Hungry again

Bryan is back in his room now and the first thing he said when he woke up was "hummmm something smells good" (a nurse had some food outside his room).

This is a VERY good sign he's doing well. Another PTL is that he isn't nauseous. Bryan was concerned about being nauseous again after this procedure, but he's feeling good.

He's out!

PTL! Bryan came through this second procedure very well. This was a big one, it was at a hard to reach place. But it went very well.

They are now stablizing him and then going to move him back to his room and stablize him again (his blood pressure, etc).

Thank you again for the prayers.

My mom (Merrie) says that he'll be all set to watch the SuperBowl this weekend and they aren't planning the 3rd procedure till next week.

He's in!

They took Bryan in for the second Angiogram and procedure this morning at around 9:00am(EST). At around 11am the doctor will come out and explain whay he saw in the Angiogram and what they are going to do next.

Bryan will be under till this afternoon. I'll let you know when I hear more. Keep praying!

Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Second procedure scheduled

Bryan will be going in for the second procedure at 3:00pm (eastern time). He is going to have the Angiogram and then the procedure. He will be under for about 6 hours. I'll post an update late tonight when he's back in his room.
Please pray for him!

2:45pm (eastern) Bryan's procedure has been moved up to 4:30pm(eastern)

As of 4:30pm(EST), The Doctors have decided to wait until tomorrow to do the procedure. Bryan is scheduled for 11am tomorrow. This decision was made because the Dr wanted to have as much staff available as possible and now that it's in the evening there isn't as much staff as during the day.

Today Bryan watched TV game shows and did crossword puzzles. He is doing very well. He was VERY hungry all day but they weren't going to let him eat because of the surgery. Now that it's rescheduled for tomorrow, he was able to have his grilled cheese and chicken soup (WAIT... HE'S CHANGED IT TO YANKEE POT ROAST) for dinner tonight. He was very thankful to be able to eat something :)

Becky is doing very well also. She's hangin in there.

Wednesday

Wednesday
10:00am There is so much to be thankful for.

Bryan had a good night last night. He was able to rest. His blood pressure remained steady (around 114). He passes his hourly neurology tests with flying colors. His attitude is his usual positive self. This is an outward sign of his deep and steady walk with his Lord.

Becky’s parents, Bob and Marsha Callero, arrived from southern PA last night adding another pillar of strength for Bryan and Becky. They also brought a care package from Becky’s sister, Sarah. It included a beautiful pair of fuzzy pink slippers to comfort Becky’s swelling feet.

This blog sight which is allowing hundreds of Bryan’s family and friends too stay posted and to know what to specifically pray for. Bryan feels bathed in the prayers of the saints across the country and literally around the world.

Another thing to be thankful for is that Joe continues to commute back and forth managing the two Kaye households, the dogs, the laundry, the mail, etc, etc.

And yesterday, Merrie and Joe’s good friend Betsy (The ICU nurse from Baystate who helped coordinate Bryan’s move to Boston) came in on her day off and brought in from the Faith Tabernacle family a huge bag of snacks, fruits, sweets, and a case of bottled water. THANK YOU – THANK YOU- THANK YOU!!! Betsy remains a tremendous support to the family in this difficult time.

Merrie and Becky were able to get some good sleep; snuggled in the comfortable beds at the DoubleTree knowing they are literally 5 minutes from Bryan’s bedside should they receive an emergency call. The ICU staff welcomes Becky’s check-in calls during the night.

Bryan Status:
Yesterday (Tuesday) was a “watching day”. Today is going to be a “waiting day”. Waiting for Bryan to go down for his next Angiogram and procedure. Waiting for the results of the test which will determine exactly what the procedure will be. Waiting for the procedure to be over. Waiting for Bryan to come out of anesthesia. Waiting to see if the procedure caused any deficits or disturbances or side effects. Waiting for his body to stabilize. Waiting for his blood pressure to stabilize. Waiting for the nausea to be controlled (both the anesthesia and the “glue” they are using to seal off the veins cause nausea). Waiting for Bryan to feel comfortable.

The test and the procedure will take about 6-7 hours and we will post the time that it will happen when we hear. It blesses the family beyond words to know how much they are loved and cared for by so many concerned saints.

We all know Bryan has a network of friends but never knew the magnitude of his connections. But then again we know Bryan….

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Tuesday

Tuesday status
Dr Malek and his Neurologist team decided to not do the second procedure today to allow the blood flow in Bryan’s brain to stabilize after changing the pattern of the blood flow that Bryan’s brain has had since birth.

Bryan is in great spirits today and was finally able to have food. He choose Sugar Pops cereal for breakfast and a grilled cheese for lunch. Becky (and Joe and Merrie) has spent the day visiting, but care has to be taken for Bryan not too expend too much energy that might cause his blood pressure to increase. Assuming he remains stable, Dr’s will do the second procedure tomorrow (Wednesday).

How to help

Bryan and Becky and the families have really been blessed by all the prayers and support and phone calls they have been getting.

A close friend of Bryan's has set up a fund for some of the upcoming expenses. If anyone would like to help Merrie and Becky with the expenses of living in Boston for 2+ weeks (hotel bills, food, misc, etc.) please send a donation for the DoubleTree fund. Send and write checks to:
Debbie Moore
C/O Faith Tabernacle
15 Kibbie Rd
East Longmeadow, MA 01028

Please send all cards for Bryan and Becky to their home address (below). Joe will be picking up their mail everyday and bring any cards to them in Boston.
Bryan and Becky Kaye
101 Somers Rd
East Longmeadow, MA 01028

And then

Monday
8:00am Bryan had the Angiogram which consists of dye being sent up through the vascular system of the brain to pinpoint all the issues and trouble spots they were looking for- to develop a map of the vascular system in his brain. Bryan was mostly awake because he had to participate.

11:00am Becky, Merrie, and Joe met with Dr Malek who told them the results of the test before he went back in to do the procedure. The results showed a small second AVM (where the bleed originally happened) in the Cerebellum. He also explained he was going to do the procedure of stopping the blood to the large AVM in a three step process over the upcoming week. And because the smaller AVM could not be affected by this procedure, he would most likely have to surgically remove it. Because this smaller AVM was getting a blood supply from the larger AVM after the third procedure there would be less blood there and a lower risk at the time of surgery. Obviously the family was a bit shaken with this news, but they continued to feel the comfort and support of the many many many friends and family for them and the situation.

3:00pm Bryan came through the procedure and was awakened from the anesthesia showing no residual effects. This was HUGE good news.

5:00pm Becky, Merrie, and Joe were able to see him in his room in the surgical ICU, where they were attempting to stabilize Bryan’s blood pressure at a very low rate (under 120). Bryan was absolutely miserable, complaining of all the aches and pains, but the family was relieved because of the fact that he could complain was a very good sign. The family left as the staff continued to settle Bryan in. Their surgical ICU is a unit which allows for intense monitoring with a one-on-one patient to ICU nurse.

7:00pm Joe had early in the day checked Becky and Merrie into the DoubleTree hotel across the street allowing them to be back to Bryan’s room in 5 minutes should an emergency arise. Knowing that Bryan was in good hands, Becky and Merrie went back to the hotel room to try to get a good night’s sleep. The ICU nurse said that she would call if she needed them to come back at any time. Totally exhausted Becky and Merrie said goodbye to Joe and went to the room. The room was so inviting after spending 2 nights sleeping in chairs.

What happened next

Sunday
8:00am Baystate Neurology reviewed labs and recommended that Bryan be transported to Tufts New England Medical Center in Boston. As a huge answer to prayer, one of the top Cerebral Vascular Surgeons in the world (Dr. Adel Malek) was available to take Bryan’s case. And within the hour all arrangements were made and a room was ready and waited at the ICU in Tufts. Becky and Bryan’s parent drove home to shower and pack a bag.

10:30am Bryan’s parents drove Becky to Boston. They arrived before the ambulance so they were able to see them bring Bryan in. Bryan said later the ambulance got lost and drove over several curbs before finding the right entrance. An ICU nurse from Baystate stayed with Bryan until he was actually checked into the hospital.

3:00pm A resident Neurologist visited Bryan’s room and explained in more detail the diagnosis.
Diagnosis: An AVM (Arterial Venus Malformation) was found in the cortex area of his brain. Simply put, an AVM is a little tangle of blood vessels. Many people, like Bryan, are born with AVMs and never know they have them. But Bryan’s was in a place in the brain that was effecting the blood draining from the brain causing blood to backup a little bit and cause pressure on all the veins in his brain. This then caused one of the veins in the Cerebellum to bleed. This bleed was considered a small stroke- thankfully not having a large consequence.

The Neurologist also said they were going to do an Angiogram in the morning to have even a better picture of what’s going on. She explained the criticalness of the situation and that Bryan would be monitored extremely carefully over the next few days. While the Neurologist was talking to Bryan, Becky, and Merrie, Bryan had an allergic reaction to the blood pressure medication and they tried to counter act that with morphine to which he had a secondary allergic reaction. They immediately treated the reactions with Benadryl and the symptoms calmed down. Anyone who knows Bryan well, knows how much he dislikes medicines and he said this just confirmed his beliefs that they are in fact not good for the body

At this point Bryan was back to his cheerful self and had his sense of humor. He was also extremely hungry, but they wouldn’t feed him (he hadn’t eaten since 6pm Friday). All they would let him eat was ice chips. Becky was still holding up strong, but really tired. They whole family appreciated all the prayers that were going out on his behalf and really felt they were walking in God’s favor every step.

10:00pm The Neurologist returned to the room and said that Dr Malek wanted to have a phone consultation with Bryan and his family. At this point Bryan was very tired and asked us to go to the waiting room to do the talking. Merrie and Becky went and received Dr Malek’s phone call. He explained the seriousness of the situation and the high risk that Bryan was at because of the AVM. She was going to so the Angiogram in the morning followed by a procedure to begin to seal off the blood supply to the AVM causing it to become nonfunctioning and thus begin to restore the proper blood flow in his brain. This procedure is called an (were trying to remember the technical term) where the doctor goes up through the groin to the brain and glues together the veins feeding the AVM. After all the questions were asked and some tears shed at the seriousness of the situation the realization that a plan was in affect was comforting.

What happened to Bryan

On Friday night, January 25th, Bryan was doing one of his favorite things, playing games and having pizza with friends. Later that night about 12:30am he said goodnight to Becky who was dozing off on the couch. When he got into bed and when his head hit the pillow he had a sudden onset of violent vomiting, and blurred vision. He got up to get to the bathroom downstairs and he was extremely unsteady on his feet. Knowing something was seriously wrong, he had Becky call 911. The Ambulance took him to the ER at Baystate Med center, and Becky followed in the car. At the ER, he continued to be severely nauseated and unstable on his feet and blurred vision. The doctors initially thought it could be food poisoning or a virus. But because he continued to remain unstable on his feet, and impaired vision, at 10am on Saturday they admitted him into the hospital. Before Bryan’s mom (Merrie) got to the hospital she brought Bryan and Becky’s dog Annie to her house to stay with her canine boyfriends, Max and Tovi. When she got to the hospital and they found the symptoms were not improving. Throughout this Becky was doing well with the stress of the situation.

Saturday 3:00pm Nausea improved, vision a little improved, but still very unstable on his feet. Doctors decided to do a CAT scan.

5:00pm CAT scan showed a small amount of blood in the Cerebellum section of his brain. This is the part of the brain that controls your balance and part of your vision and a nausea center. They then scheduled a MRI for a more detailed diagnosis. Bryan’s dad (Joe) arrived to hear this report.

7:00pm Neurology report from the MRI showed abnormal vascular reading. They admitted him to the ICU for monitoring.

10:00pm Neurologists consulted on the findings and decided to hold Bryan overnight and consult with a larger Neurology department on Sunday Morning. At this point Bryan began to rest comfortably and throughout the night. The ICU was kind enough to set up a bed to let Becky stay with Bryan. Joe went home to care for the dogs and Merrie tried to get rest in the waited room. During this time a family friend who works in that ICU came for support and over see Bryan’s care.